#love #mum #death #quality #relationships In September 2019, we got the devastating news that my mum, who lived in New Zealand, had Motor Neurone Disease. It had started as mild slurred speech back in April and her voice was fading fast. In one of our FaceTime chats, I got a video capture of mum saying ‘Bye love’. I didn’t know at the time that this video would be the most precious two words I’d ever record. I flew from London to Wellington in early October to say goodbye to